I have had the hardest time receiving money for my services. I think because I never felt authentic charging for something that comes so naturally that is from the Universe. I felt I was allowing money to control my value and how I showed up or didn’t show up for people. This was conditional on what kind of results the person would have.
Now I know it is my value is Unconditional and how others receive my services is not up to me….it is up to them. Once the words and the energy has left my space, it is the other persons responsibility to receive the gifts and love as well as to start to implement how to receive Unconditional Love for themselves in their own life. I can guide and mentor people, but they need to do the work and show up for themselves, I am not here to do it for them. This is what self responsibility is. This is the difference between rescuing and empowering. I share what needs to be done, and let go. Then it is up to the person to take the wisdom and implement it into their daily lives – this is empowering!
What I offer is a safe container for people to share, where they feel heard and understood. Now, I realize that this is not an easy task for many of us – to surrender into the unknown. I have worked hard to let go! Now that sounds very silly to some of you. And yet it is absolutely true. My most accomplished degree is a Phd in the School of Life. I have spent many years studying myself through others and delearning and deprogramming what my external surroundings have said I should be.
The gift I received?
I received my True Self. I now feel whole and complete as me. I know who I am separate from how much money I have in my bank account! I am Unconditional Love that is not changeable due to external circumstances. This is true security.
I am blessed to know this and to embody my True Self in this lifetime. I am valuable just because of who I am. I am at peace with who I am. I wish this for every soul on this planet. I wish each one of you be liberated from suffering so we can create harmony through being self responsible in how we live our lives… that we then have a chance as a human race to live in harmony with each other because we are living in harmony with ourselves… our true nature.
Know that you always have a choice……..what will you choose for yourself? For each choice impacts the world – How aware are you about what you are thinking and feeling? Start to notice your inner dialogue.. what are your thinking? are they kind, loving thoughts? or are they judgmental and criticizing thoughts?
In Loving Service to you, Lucia